Does your marriage meet your expectations?

Does your marriage meet your expectations? Sex , money and communication may seem to be some of the major reasons for divorce today, but they are just symptoms of the real problem. The reason marriages end in divorce is because of unmet expectations. There is a saying, “Expectation is the mother of all frustrations.” The difficulty with most expectations in marriage is that they are often poorly communicated. Sometimes, you hear newly weds or even older couples complain, ‘I should never have married him, he has changed.’ ‘I didn’t really know her. She was very understanding before we got married, but she’s now opinionated and stubborn on almost every issue.’ One of the fears young couples or eligible singles have is unmet marital expectations. Some men expect their wives to cook fresh food everyday, remain sexy and trim after child bearing. They want their women to quit their jobs or give up their salaries, further their education, be ready for sex whenever they want it...